Integrity

This is your card reading for Friday, March 25th/16---Good Friday!  Your card today projected out of the 'Mary, Queen of Angels' deck, authored by Doreen Virtue.  Your card is 'Integrity', and Doreen's message for the card is this:
I trust my ability to know what is true for me...
You drew this card because the situation you're asking about involves someone's integrity. This card comes as guidance to pay attention to your body's signals, because you can sense whether someone is being honest.  Mother Mary is a wonderful role model of gently and lovingly demanding that others live truthfully.  You can do the same with the people in your life.  You can also avoid those who aren't acting with integrity.  Either way, trust your gut feelings to steer you toward individuals who tell the truth and who 'walk their talk'.
This card also asks you to tell the truth to yourself, even if you're uncomfortable with the possible reaction.  Prayer can guide your words, give you courage to speak up, and help create a healthy atmosphere of honest communication."

My message for you today is this:
Integrity is defined in the Merriam Webster Dictionary as this: 1. adherence to a code of values : INCORRUPTABILITY  2. SOUNDNESS  3 COMPLETENESS
Had you ever defined integrity for yourself as 'soundness' or 'completeness'?  Yet, to be of integrity DOES require that you embrace and acknowledge ALL that you are; while making the conscious choice to act upon what is Soulfully TRUE for you.  
Mother Mary is the epitome of integrity...she is representative of integrity, and she inspires us to reach for the same.  To be of integrity doesn't mean that you never make a poor decision or take a misstep away from what is integrally true for you---otherwise, you would not be human---you are here in this world of duality and contrast.  To be of integrity means to RECOGNIZE and learn from those occasions.  I realize that the times when I was MOST PROUD of my children growing up, was when they had made an error in judgment, yet had shown integrity in 'owning' that; making amends for it; and learned a vital lesson from it. Sometimes these missteps and misjudgments really serve to illustrate for us EXACTLY what is important and true for us.  We take a misstep and know that we cannot continue in that way, because it feels viscerally WRONG for us.  Therefore, we must redirect ourselves. 
Mother Mary's energy is not judgmental, but rather, encouraging...encouraging us to have the courage to stand in our personal integrity, thereby inspiring others to do the same for themselves.  Mary's son, Jesus, was the embodiment of just that. How beautifully synchronistic that this message presented for you on Good Friday---the day commemorating Jesus' crucifixion---I hadn't consciously 'thought' of that, until I was typing this message for you!  (Spirit works in incredible ways, and I am in gratitude!)
I KNOW that, as the energies and vibrations have been undergoing a dynamic shift here for humanity, people have been urged to step into their personal Truth, and have also found it increasingly difficult to be in the company of people who are not of personal integrity, or whom they don't feel in alignment with, vibrationally.  You have likely found some old friendships falling away and new friendships developing with some people that you feel you have known 'forever'! Even longstanding and familial relationships have been shifting, as you move into expressing your True self. Approach none of this from a stance of judgment--of yourself, or others.  Honour yourself and trust in your feelings about others---do what you must to maintain your own integrity---but honour where they are at also, rather than drop into condemnation.  You cannot fully understand their path when you haven't walked it. Perhaps the path that you shared for a time now leads you in different directions.  Perhaps you must make the choice to walk away. That's ok. For both of you.  Bless them, for the learning and experiences, and walk on.
On this Good Friday, make the commitment to be of personal integrity and to honour your Truth, while allowing others to do the same.  Mother Mary has presented for you, with her loving maternal energy, to assist you in doing so. 
Blessed be...